LOVE ; EMOTICON OR EMOTION?

By Fareed Omar



What is true love?


Is it an illusion, something that we can only hope for or is it an delusion, something that we will never truely grasp.Well, regardless of what it is, this is my allusion.


We must appreciate that more often than not we never really end up with the ones we truely love. 


Lets face it, on the face of it, it may appear we are with the one we truely love and society will attest and applaud us for it. 


But deep inside are we really being true to ourselves? Perhaps ww just dont want to face the truth that for us to truelly say we are in live with someone then we must have not passed only the test of time but that of sacrifice.


True love is looking at the person you wished to be with and give a smile that masks the pain inside. That secret pain that you undergo everytime you think and selfishly wish you shared the same path again is what love is.


Yes in this here life, the person you truely love more likely than not, you will not end up with them. Hence why i tend to think that love is a sacrifice!! For one to truely know love they must appreciate that its gonna hurt like hell.


Well whatever lessons past love has taught you, let it not change who you are nor let it wall you from your next attempt.  Lost love is only but a found definite if not definition found.  A universal definition found via ethos, pathos and locos. To each their own interpretation... ces't la vie!


For you who sees it as a hurt sign, do not try to spell correctly for it might just change the whole meaning or dim the true path. There is no candle that can rekindle an existing fire inside you. To truely appreciate the light and warmth of a fire you must first understand what darkness is. Our blind attempts can sometimes light the fire but ignite and attract an infinite fusillade. 


Behold and accept love in proportion and not in portion.

Enjoy it naturally and you will reap the seeds. 


Embrace the hurt and you will find where your heart is. Acknowledge that  a baby can only learn how to walk with each failed attempt. All hope is not lost for you deserve better if not the best. For now, remain at your best. Dont expect disappointments coz thats wat you will attract or expect and see. 


Yes, this reference or inference we call love is indeed quite a rhetoric puzzle. 

And who knows sometimes the gap that is a miss in someone, you might just be the one who has the hand with the missing piece in this puzzle. Aligned appropriately and you might just have placed it on cinderellas foot.  


Having found its place. We can now almost certainly hear the bells ringing. When we do, an alarm is raised and we wake from the dream of almost finding the true meaning of love